Prosal Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Topcatta said:Wauw you must have been pretty hurt by women to be so judgemental. Sorry for you. You're right, you can be sorry for me : I've never found a chick who was incredibily intellectually stimulating, liked all of my hobbies, could be a responsible/nurturing mother for my children, and who was also a world-class freak in bed (oral, anal, wild positions, etc). You can also be sorry for me as I've even rarely gotten a decent blowjob out of any girl who wasn't either a current or former working girl. Most of the non-pro chicks (and I've had more Brasilian and Indonesian ass than any two guys I know) I've had give me head just have lousy technique. They go too slow, don't use enough pressure, don't go deep enough, etc. You know what I mean if you're a decent blower. lol. Life is cruel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted November 30, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 "I've never found a chick who was incredibily intellectually stimulating, liked all of my hobbies, could be a responsible/nurturing mother for my children, and who was also a world-class freak in bed (oral, anal, wild positions, etc)." That's class to say that I am right! Si a nice guy after all. I did not expect that. Yeah I am intellectually stimulating, dont know your hobbies but seems we have one in common the girls, like kids but also giving them back to mammy after playing (not sexual, not my cup of tea) and I am a world class freak in bed. I was throat raped in puberty and avoided always any oral contact. Still thinking about the gagging when the guy was just shoving his dick quickly and deeply in my mouth. Took me years to get over that but when I was with my former partner (first one i really fell in love with) I started using my creativity and just explored all the possibilities in touch, in combi with jerking off (also not in the ordinary way, didnt like that) in combi with the touch of my breath or hair. In short touching the Tantric way and I started to love his dick too. Funny thing it makes me really hot now. And most man really enjoy my explorations. For instance when in the kitchen I would find all kitchen tools that could possibly be used to arouse the dick. A (cold!) kettle is good for a laugh! I hope one day you will find what you are looking for. Thanks for your reply. Are you in BKK now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted November 30, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Well, havent made up my mind about that yet. To go with a kathuy w/o a dick does not attract me. What can you do with a pussy which is not a pussy. But I like the combination of a dick and big titties. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Dick & big titties should be no problem to find in nanaplaza - just look around Anyways nice thread here topcatta so do hang out here more regularly & don't be put off by the negative narrowminded posters. No need for you to defend yourself against them simply ignore them is enough Oh and good luck with the sexcapades in bkk :hubba: Happy wild fucking & keep us posted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted November 30, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Thanks. Yeah I do like hanging out here and will remain to do so. I don't feel offended by other opinions, have seen too much of life for that. Also in real life people find me difficult to handle since it just aint sexual revolution times and being sexually openminded for a woman seems to be strange now. I actually have learned to shut up about sex, really not my way. So it is great to hang out here and be able to talk to (unfortunately mostly) guys. Not that i dont like guys. but it would be nice to share sexcapades (funny havent used that word in ages and just used it in an email before I got back to this site) with girls too. I dont like the lesbian scene since many reject bi-girls as ''in bed with the enemy''. Man are more my allies instead. So good to hear ya! I take it youre a guy Veteran? Vietnam vet? Know many from the Soi before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted November 30, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Hi Sanuk DiDi, Tell me what this poll thing is. I am new to this Forums idea. I fucked up my questions since I had so many to ask I could refrase it in 2 questions. At least i understand it should be 2 questions? Please fill me in and i will correct. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Unfortunately I can't choose my 'nick' "veteran" just like you can't your "stranger"; so your guess couldn't be further off the mark as I was one of the lucky ones being excempted military service thus hinting I also may be male, but would you really trust me on that untill you met me in person? Anyways any tips how to get my wife to consider going bi or getting into 3somes? :hubba: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadaBing Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 ib13 said:Unfortunately I can't choose my 'nick' "veteran" just like you can't your "stranger"; Sure she can , go here and see " donate " :: , but " pussy sniffer " is already taken Bada Bing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topcatta Posted November 30, 2005 Author Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 Tips to get your wife into threesomes: My partner is a very visual guy. From the start he fantasized aloud about having a girl with us while we were fucking. Talking to me like she was there at that moment. I went along with that, getting a bit hot but the sex itself was hotter. But knowing this excites my partner to the fullest, I went along till we had a chance to bring a threesome in practise. On one of the Thai islands we met an Aussie girl who was extremely extrovert and sensual. We exchanged a few words and it became obvious to me I really wanted to fuck her. So I told a mutual friend. Next day she comes up to me and whispers in my ear; So you wanna fuck me? When do you wanna do it? I dropped of my chair...and appointed for that evening but knowing how wishy washy girls can be did not count on it. But she was home!!! We both like sexy skimpy clothes and she had a bungalow full. I tried her suits on and enthusiastic she jumped in and sucked my titties. No response, way too soft for me, but my partner was just hopping out of his pants and watching his red hot face and red hot hard one, made me hot. The girl jumped back on the bed and ordered me to lick her pussy. Suddenly stricken by AIDS fear I asked whether she was near her period...She laughed and asked if I saw anything hanging out...My partner jumped in too and started to kiss/lick her upperlegs. I did too but feeling his hot breath and the heat from his head, i got really excited. First time I licked a pussy...Wonderful sweet tasting, great feeling of tongue on that special kind of skin. I went over the moon. Since then I m addicted. Before this partner I had sexperience with 3 women but it felt like more exploring sameness. So my thinking is it is because of the fantasies of my partner but he tells me there must have been a seed already. The thing is when you have a heavy focus on the sex parts AND on the fantasies, both chakra's or glands and hormones are affected instead of just one area. So you can have High(er) Sex. I must say also thanks to hormones it does not always work (the fantasies) for me and I cant turn on my brain and am only focused on the sex itself. Or I am too tired. So actually the fantasies grew on me. And now I am fantasizing like a man as if I have a dick which can enter pussies and mouths. Porn movies are great for that since they are mostly filmed for guys anyway. Meaning that the girls often are in positions you can imagine that it is you who is fucking her. Great I just use the anti-porn feminism criticism for my own sake. I literally focus on the feeling of feeling my dick. That DOES take a lot of focus though. But if my partner jerks me off in the same rythm the guy is fucking the girl in the movie, whether he does it soft, slow, hard or fast, I can get into the feeling. BUt that synchronicity is important. Plus I focus on my partners cock and every little sigh or change in erectness makes me horny. As well as does my sighs and signs which then triggers him, etc. Do you experience that flow too? I dont know whether your wife is open minded. Maybe she should read what I said? Maybe not. That s for you to determine. I hope I was of help to you both and maybe others as well. By the way, If I have sex with a girl alone, I dont get so high. Let me know what the results are! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli13 Posted December 1, 2005 Report Share Posted December 1, 2005 "I focus on my partners cock and every little sigh or change in erectness makes me horny. As well as does my sighs and signs which then triggers him, etc. Do you experience that flow too?" I certainly do. Girls behaviour throughout sex can be neutral, off putting or a turn on! Even the sexiest fox in the world wouldn't turn me on as long she was cold as ice & seemed like not into me at all! Simple biology really - no? As to my girl we have plenty of common fantasies & often discuss them & try to set goals how to live out the next one. But while she's rather openminded she's also jealous thus so far ruling out other people into our sex games even guys! Maybe one day by chance with the right girl she'll discover new limits... :hubba: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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