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Ok, So I don't want a GTG afterall....


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I am thinking that maybe your problem is you just don't have any game. LOS is bursting with women, they are everywhere!

 

I am a tourist and I seem to attract all types of Thai women GTG's, BG's, BTG's GBTG's, etc. Maybe they see a little bad boy in me or there is a curiousity factor. I don't know. I do know that I am a hell of a flirt, whether I am in a bar or I am in the Emporium. The only words I know in Thai are the ones that compliment a woman's beauty and grace.

 

Hell I recently was in Udon Thani and I had girls from the age of 8 making me flower bouquets and women 50 yrs old buying me beer. My lady friends girlfriends were asking her how good I was in bed.

 

Do you even bother to flirt with the Thai women? I will give you a hint they flirt like hell with their eyes, as a matter of fact they have entire conversations with their eyes! Learn to read the signals and I am sure you will be okay. Thai women are like women everywhere they perceive strength weakness, kindness, sensitivity, sexual attraction etc. Maybe you are trying too hard. Did you have problems in your home country attracting women?

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Nah, I didn't have problems at home and I do get complimented here all the time...... I consider myself to be reasonably good looking at least not outrageously uglyand I'm 25 years old.

 

I think it's the town I live in. The girls from out of town are mainly BGs and the GTGs go to live/work/study in BK.

 

I'll keep you posted if you're interested.

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I would considering myself as a bad Thai girl then .. I like party, drinks (Gosh , I got drunk sometimes!) I dont know anybody who act like what you mention.Well, maybe a nan? Did you met her at the temple and dress up all white?Just curious:)

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. . .I'm 25 years old.

 

[color:purple] That's the problem. You don't know squat about women. Wait till your 30, then you will really have no clue. At 45 you will be completely lost. At 55 you wonder why you wasted so much time on them. On your deathbed you ask yourself what the hell was the point.

 

There is no good girl or bad girl, only the one that treats you right! color=purple>

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I looked around my house and no tar or feather is available, so you are safe for now.

 

My mother said once when I was upset about people stereotyping each other that ?People are as dumb or intelligent about a subject as what their experience is, and what their intelligence can interpret?. Your stereotype on GTG is downright wrong and can be insulting. Don?t know how much your experience with GTG, however, is it fair to stereotype as such? My husband (American) does not drink, I drink a glass of wine every full moon, we smoke and none of my Thai family does (our vice) and we do try our hardest not to offend the non-smokers. My Thai male friends have the stereotype that American women are easy to take to bed and after having lived and worked in the US for more than 30 years, I emphatically disagree for it depends on individuals, period. What do you think when a Thai man once said the stereotype that the Western men will bed every bargirl they found in Thailand no matter how they look, ?Every farang will bed anything that does NOT have a tail!?. Please, if you have a concrete statistics, share it, just do not lump all Thai woman (or any nationality for that matter) in a category. Mr. Stickman?s site has many negative views on the Thai women including what is called ?Good Thai Girls?; however, I take it that those views are from the women he and his readers encountered. In any society, how people feel is as good as people they meet, work, in love with or associate with in the prevailing society. I am sorry that you feel the GTG is unworthy for you to invest the time and understanding, perhaps the GTGs are better off that way. Should I be upset when an unscrupulous man, stranger to me, asked where I worked in Thailand before coming to the States, did my customers teach me English? What was he implying?

 

 

 

About pre-marital sex, Thai girls are not what they were about 40 years ago when I was growing up. My brother owns a girl dormitory and it is noticed that many young girls do not think that the virginity is the most important thing to make a female a good person. When I went to high school in Thailand, it was debated in school, and it was concurred by 99% boys that they wanted their future wives to be virgin, believe it or not over half of the girls disagreed. Mr. Stickman?s site (again) has an article, which warns the readers to watch out for the Thai females who jump into sexual relationship too fast. Is it more than a little bit confusing what these GTG, who may have a pleasure of your company, are supposed to do? I went to school with American women and still have many friends and co-workers, I find them quite level headed, sensible and quite particular who they go to bed with. I am sure that the GTG who senses your sincerity can explain her reasons why she was not ready to TRY you in bed.

 

 

 

On the subject of the parents, it is true that most Thais will inform the parents on what they do and mostly for adult Thais, it is out of respect. Whenever we visit Thailand, we tell my mother and brother where we go and what we do, simply because we know that they care and worry about us and it is not a big deal. We never ask for permission but for the opinion of what they think and I know that the behavior makes my mother very happy and it does not cost us anything. However, I have seen the parents respect abused, we used to have a maid that her worthless, drunk father showed up every 2 months to get the maid salaries using parents? gratefulness and respect as weapon. I remember she used to go without money for months at a time, my parents had to give her extra pocket money for the necessities. Still, there are many parents who expect their children to send them money; no doubt, you have read many articles about Thai women sending money home to their parents.

 

Quote "All they do is watch TV and do cross stitch." What is wrong with the mentioned activities? I watch about 2 hours of TV/week and do not do cross-stitch; I guess I am a little strange for Thai women. What would you like them to do?

 

 

 

Sorry that I got long-winded, many more things I want to say but I?d better come to the ?J?ai fini? at this time.

 

Cheers!

 

 

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[color:blue]When I went to high school in Thailand, it was debated in school, and it was concurred by 99% boys that they wanted their future wives to be virgin, believe it or not over half of the girls disagreed.color=blue>

 

 

 

I wonder if these boys would feel the same way if they were told that they would never, ever be allowed to have sex with anyone other than their wife after marriage. Would they still want her to be completely inexperienced sexually if they did not have an easy outlet (massage parlors, karaoke bars, mia nois) for their wild sexual desires? I think not.

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Look,

 

 

 

I think that some people who have read this message have failed to fully understand what I was getting at. I know... and I said in the post, that I was using outrageous stereotypes.

 

 

 

All I was trying to do was to illustrate the cultural differences between westerners and Thais......

 

 

 

My experience of GTGs is quite limited.. in the relationship sense anyway. I do work with them and I have met quite a few of them.

 

 

 

Farang men are used to going out to pubs and clubs and meeting regular, respectable girls. If they get on well they may see each other again.

 

 

 

Here, at least where I live, if you meet a girl in a pub or a club there is an 80 % chance that she is a hooker. I guess I'm just frustrated because I find it impossible to meet regular Thai girls.

 

 

 

Come on, where do they socialise/hang out? I've had people tell me to go the mall or hang out at the market.... bullshit, maybe in BKK but not here.

 

 

 

Anyway, I won't be posting on this thread anymore.... I regret posting this thread in the first place.

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